I’m a straight guy but I really like queer ships like sandbina, eimiko, kavetham,for example. and I don’t want to seem like I’m fetishises because I like these ships am I cooked 😢
does it consume every waking moment of your life to the point that its affecting the relationship between your friends, family?
does it affect you in such a way that your work/studies performance have been reduced in quality?
does it make you treat people awfully?
if not then you're overthinking it.
sugarpototo2026-01-22 10:58
Cooked how? Enjoy what you enjoy, no one cares as long as you're not weird about it
Sozerius2026-01-22 10:58
A straight guy liking 2 girls together is pretty common. Liking two guys is less common but wholesome if so. Liking a ship doesn't have to be a fetish, they are just relationships. It just depends on if you actually fetishize it in your mind, or not.
According-Look-5762026-01-22 11:05
Yes
Liniali2026-01-22 11:45
I guess it depends.
"I like this ship because their dynamic is interesting/I like their relationship" is actually healthy.
"I like this ship only because it is w/w" is fetishizing to some extent.
"I like this ship because men are gross and should not touch these girls. I see myself as one of girls. I wish I was a girl and I had such relationship/my lesbian harem" in my opinion is really a problem.
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does it affect you in such a way that your work/studies performance have been reduced in quality?
does it make you treat people awfully?
if not then you're overthinking it.
"I like this ship because their dynamic is interesting/I like their relationship" is actually healthy.
"I like this ship only because it is w/w" is fetishizing to some extent.
"I like this ship because men are gross and should not touch these girls. I see myself as one of girls. I wish I was a girl and I had such relationship/my lesbian harem" in my opinion is really a problem.